I’ll assume you are a lot cut up about the recent split. There’s a good chance your emotions are in tatters. You get the best of both worlds if you sever all contact with your ex.

First you get a bit of personal healing time. A chance to heal on an emotional level. Important in two ways. Your health and your plan. The ‘get her back’ plan

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If you go into any attempt to win her back with your head unbalanced you risk killing any chance you might have. Being under total control allows you to calmly handle any situation that she throws at you. You can demonstrate just how ‘grown up’ you are, even though you are expected to be fragile.

Another benefit of cutting contact is your ex can’t fail to notice your absence. But she broke up with me you say. Why will she notice my absence? You were a big part of your ex’s life for a while. Not being there now will force her to wonder about you.

They must be thinking about you to notice you aren’t around any more. It’s better to be in their head just a little than not be in their head at all. If you aren’t around and she thinks of you, the thoughts will probably be good.

“I get the point, zero contact. For how long?” It’s hard to say exactly as everyone is different. I think about a month is the longest I’d go. You can’t afford to let her drift away.

So you’ve got your head into gear, you’re ready to make a move to get her back. How do you go about it? That’s a fair question and the answer I would give anyone is to get yourself a game plan. A plan that has easy to follow instructions from start to finish.

Your options are… Use your own techniques to win her back. I wish you luck if you try it this way. Your other choice is to use an off the shelf system that has worked many times before.

It’s hard to believe but there are a few systems like that on the net. Methods that have been proven to work over and over. Methods that you can follow simply, step by step.

When I first came across a system like this I honestly thought it was total BS. It came as a shock, but it didn’t take long for me to start believing. One of the very popular methods has reunited over six thousands couples. So there must be something to it!

There’s a couple ways you can go here. Try to wing it and get your ex back yourself. Or take the route that the smart people take and borrow the wisdom of some successful people. I don’t know about you but I know I would take the second route.

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I reckon I’m right in thinking the break up has hit you bad. Your emotions are no doubt up & down like a rollercoaster. Cutting off contact with your ex will help you in more than one way.

Number 1, you get chance to heal. A chance to heal those battered emotions. It’s important to both you & the ‘win her back’ plan.

If you go into any attempt to get her back with your head unbalanced you risk blowing any chance you have. Being in control lets glide through any potential explosive situation. This demonstrates just how mature you can be.

The second good thing about having no contact is that she will most definitely notice you are not there. It may have been her that finished it. So why would she miss you at all you might ask. Well, there’s a well knowing saying…conspicuous by your absence.

If she only thinks about you because you aren’t there, at least she is still thinking about you. It’s better to be in their head just a little than not be in their head at all. If you are always in your ex’s face she will definitely think bad thoughts. Not being in her face gives her chance to remember nice things about your relationship.

“I get the point, no contact. For how long?” That’s a very good question and it won’t be the same for all situations. I think about a month is the longest I’d go. You can’t allow her to drift away.

What’s the next step you may ask. “I’m in full control and want to win her back, how do I do it?” Another good question, and one I would answer with … Get a game plan going! A plan that you can easily follow all the way to the end.

You have a couple choices now. Try to win her back yourself. I wish you all the luck in the world if you go down that road. Or you use a system for success created by someone else.

There are quite a few systems like this available on the internet, even thought it’s hard to believe. Systems that have worked successfully for countless others. Step by step systems that will hold your hand all the way.

To say I was skeptical when I first discovered a system like this is an understatement. I’m glad I decided to give one a try, oh boy am I glad. The top selling system has already managed to reunite over 6,000 couples from around the globe. This can’t be by chance alone!

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I reckon I’m right in thinking the break up has hit you bad. Your emotions are probably up & down like a rollercoaster. Don’t worry, as stopping any contact will work for you on two fronts.

You firstly get a bit of personal healing time. A chance to heal on an emotional level. Important in two ways. Your health and your plan. The ‘get her back’ plan

If you go into any attempt to get her back with your head unbalanced you risk blowing any chance you have. If you can stay in control. You can deal with any situation that crops up. This gives your ex an idea of just how mature you can be.

The 2nd good thing about having zero contact is that she will most definitely notice you are not there. But she broke up with me you say. Why will she notice my absence? If she was used to seeing you a lot she will notice you not being around at all.

If she wonders where you are, this means your ex is thinking about you. Doesn’t matter how little or often you are in your ex’s thoughts as long as you are in them. If you are not around and she thinks about you, the thoughts will probably be good.

“I get the point, zero contact. For how long?” I suppose everyone is different and so will the period of absence. I guess three or four weeks is the max. The last thing you want is her looking for a new date.

What’s the next step you may ask. “I’m in full control and want to win her back, how do I do it?” That’s a fair question and the answer I would give anyone is to put together a game plan. A plan that has easy to follow instructions from start to finish.

Your options are… Use your own techniques to try to win her back. Best of luck if you go this route. Or you could use a system for success created by someone else.

It’s a fact, although a difficult one to believe, that there are systems & methods like this on the internet. Methods that work, have worked and will work again. Systems that are complete step by step blueprints.

To say I was skeptical when I first discovered a system like this is an understatement. I’m glad I decided to give one a try, oh boy am I glad. There must be some magic behind it when the most popular system has over twelve thousand people raving about it.

You can go one of two ways here, take the do-it-yourself route. Or go the smart route and get yourself a blueprint that’s worked time and again. I think (I know) the second option is the safest and quickest way to success.

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I guess you are going through an enormous amount of emotional upheaval at the moment. Your emotions are no doubt up & down like a yo-yo. You will get a double benefit by stopping any contact for a while.

First things first, you get to have some important healing time. Healing on an emotional level is very important. This is important firstly for you, but also for your plan to win her back.

If you go into any attempt to win her back with your emotions unbalanced you risk blowing any chance you have. You can easily sail through any tense situation if you have total control of your emotions. This shows her how mature you are, when she will be expecting the opposite.

The secong good thing about having zero contact is that she will most definitely notice you are not there. You might be thinking that she finished it so why miss you now? If she was used to seeing you a lot she will notice you not being around at all.

Your ex is thinking about you when she notices you aren’t there. It’s better to be in your ex’s thoughts in any way possible than not at all. If she thinks about you because you aren’t there then your ex’s thoughts will either be good, or at least curious.

Ok I’ll stay away, but for how long? There’s no set period of time. It’ll differ for each situation. I suppose 3 or 4 weeks is long enough as you don’t really want her to get into the routine of a new single life.

So you’ve got your head into gear, you’re ready to make a move to get her back. How do you go about it? Another good question, and one I would answer with … Time to get a plan! A plan that has easy to follow instructions from start to finish.

You can go one of two ways. Do it all yourself with your own plan. Best of luck if you go this route. Or make the smart move and use a system that’s proven to work.

It’s hard to believe but there are a few systems like that on the net. Methods that have been proven to work over and over. Systems that you can follow step by step.

I know I was skeptical when I first came across one of these systems. It came as a shock, but it didn’t take long for me to start believing. One such method has testimonials from six thousand couples, and counting!

So, your options now are…go into it blind and try to learn how to win her back yourself. Or get yourself armed with a set of instructions that are proven over and over to work. I think (I know) the second choice is the safest and quickest way to success.

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Most people are blind to it but we are manipulated almost every day by psychological tactics. Governments, employers, even our friends and partners. A typical example is the employee of the month. Employers are using psychological mind games to increase production.

Get her to call you without asking
This is how it goes. We nearly all love receiving letters, as long as they aren’t bills. You send her a handwritten note. You tell her how good things are for you right now and that you would like to thank her.

This note she received will raise her curiosity levels and also a bit of pride will kick in. The note mentions a “thank you”, she can’t for the life of her think why you would thank her. There’s the curiosity. And the pride comes in when she realises you’ve thanked her for something good she’s done. She cannot resist calling you to find out why you thanked her. You say thank you for (the breakup) making you realise it was the right thing.

The real reason you sent the letter is to get her to contact you. Play your cards right here and she will forever think she got back in touch with you. Because in the letter you never asked her to call you. But the letter did its job and she called anyway.

You can get hold of the exact letter to send later. I’ll show you where. And some other tricks like this.

Use her favourite memories
You can use her favourite things to further your quest to win her back. You can use her favourite food, or smell. Or even her fav song.

Say she calls you (after she got your letter), you can have her fav song on in the background just loud enough that she hears it. In the back of her mind when she thinks of that song she thinks of the most recent time she heard it, that was on the phone to you. She loves the song. She heard it while on the phone to you. Her subconscious links the nice feelings together.

Curious jealousy
Get your self out with some friends but make sure you are seen to be having a great time. More importantly try to wangle it so your ex knows you were out having fun.

As long as you aren’t dating another girl, she would be livid at this, you can make your ex just a little bit jealous at missing out on the fun. She will expect you to be still mourning her but here she finds you out & about enjoying yourself. She may well feel she wants to be part of the fun again like it used to be.

There you have three little psychological tricks to help you to win her back. Yes a few people will look down their nose at using them but they are harmless and no serious damage will be done. But you can’t just jump in and use these tactics without an overall plan.

What you really need is to use them as part of the total game plan to win her back. If you don’t have a proper step by step system to follow you are going in blind. Failure is likely without a plan.

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The fact that we’d broke up had totally taken over my life. There’s me thinking things were going great and bam! she’s walked out. Talk about a surprise. I think that’s one of mans big weaknesses. We get in a comfort zone in a relationship and we start to believe things are going along nicely.

When my ex ran off and I wanted to get my wife back I was lost, didn’t have the first idea. I was doing all the stuff you are probably doing now. Searching around the internet looking for information. I came across a handful of sites that had little bits of decent advice but they never seemed to give you the full package.

I wasn’t stupid enough to think I could win her back in a day with a magic trick or something. But I knew I needed a battle plan, something I could follow step by step. I was panicking that she’d be gone with another man if I didn’t do something fast.

I found a website selling an ebook on making up after a split or divorce. I must admit my scam radar was at full bleep here. I thought who cares? May as well give it a try. Wasn’t like I had a lot left to lose. Maybe I could gain something.

I didn’t really know what to expect but I certainly wasn’t expecting a section on psychological mind games. Oh boy was I gonna lay some psycho babble mumbo jumbo on her. As it happens, the psychological mind games were sweet & very subtle. It wasn’t the hypnosis mumbo jumbo I was concerned it might be.

Didn’t mean the tactics weren’t as powerful as I’d expected. In fact they worked better than I thought. I used the systems advice to make contact with my ex again. They even outline just how to do this. Quite sneakily as well I might add. We agreed to meet up for a coffee and from then on, following the system rules, it seemed I was in total control.

My ex wife just didn’t have a clue that I was quietly controlling the situation. She still doesn’t realise I’m doing it now. I know that if we ever break up again I have the ammunition to win her back if I want to.

If you want to win her back you have two roads you can travel down. Carry on as you are doing now. Which is probably getting you nowhere fast? Or you can make it happen for yourself, learn how to win her back and then keep her.

1 – Telling lies to others about your ex

You will ruin any chance you have of getting together again with this one. If they were spreading lies about you, how would you feel about that? I know I would be gutted. If that happened to me there’s no way I’m getting back with my ex.

2 – Getting your ex to be a bit jealous

Now, this can work to your advantage under certain circumstances. But it won’t work when you’ve just broke up and you are clearly in bits and they know you will try anything to get your ex back. This can backfire big time. The jealousy you are looking for may turn to revulsion and they then know it’s over for good.

3 – The stalker

Do we even need to discuss this one? But just in case we do. The best you can hope for is to be seen as desperate and needy. That doesn’t help you at all. At worst you can come across as dangerous and frightening, which could lead to the law being involved which will most definitely kill any chance you have.

4 – Getting revenge on your ex

Revenge may be sweet but if revenge is on your mind do you really want to get them back? If you are prepared to do the dirty on them in any way at all you can’t really love them as much as you think. You simply don’t hurt the one you love.

5 – Text pest

This is almost like electronic stalking but it’s just as serious. Calling and texting constantly can be seen as a form of mental torture. Trust me this is not how you wanna come across. Best case scenario they ignore the calls, worst case they change their number. Then you’ve screwed any chance of future contact.

So, we now know a few things not to do if you want to get your ex back. There are many things you can do to increase your chances but alas these aren’t them

Take a bit of advice and spend some time getting yourself in the right frame of mind to move forward with your plan. With your emotions under control you give yourself every chance of steering your ex back to you.

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1 – Do not lie about your ex

This one will kill any chances of getting your ex back stone dead. Turn the situation around and imagine they were spreading lies about you. I know I would be mortified if my recent ex was doing this. If that happened to me there’s no way I’m getting back with my ex.

2 – Trying to make your ex feel jealous

Now, this can work to your advantage under certain circumstances. But jumping straight in after a breakup and trying to make them jealous will just make them feel all the more distant from you. You can easily get the wrong reaction here, instead of a little jealousy they may just feel disgust and decide it’s over for ever.

3 – The stalker

We shouldn’t even have to say anything about stalking but just in case we do. At best you are going to come across as needy and clingy, which isn’t going to help. Worst case scenario you can get your self into trouble with the law, possibly even a jail sentence. Imagine what that’d do to your chances.

4 – Getting revenge on your ex

Revenge may be sweet but if revenge is on your mind do you really want to get them back? If you are prepared to do the dirty on them in any way at all you can’t really love them as much as you think. If you love someone you wouldn’t hurt them.

5 – Text pest

Being a text pest is nearly as bad as being a stalker. Calling and texting constantly can be seen as a form of mental torture. Trust me this is not how you wanna come across. What if they were to change their number instead of just ignoring you? If they do that there’s a good chance you lost them for good.

So, we now know a few things not to do if you want to get your ex back. There’s lots of things you can do to help your situation but those aren’t any of them.

A good bit of advice is to take a bit of time to get your head together and formulate a proper plan. If you are in control of your emotions you give yourself a greater chance to get your ex back.

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Letting depression take over you is easier than you might think. Depression is one of the hardest things to overcome, as most times you don’t realise what it is. If you see yourself falling for any of these ‘symptoms’ you need to do something about it. Otherwise you may harm your chances of getting her back.

Sleeping through the day.

Your body clock will be out of sorts if you sleep all day. And you run the risk of never getting back into a normal routine. If you succumb to the urge to stay in bed all day. You will struggle to break free of this one.

Staying at home.

This means you refuse to go out with friends or family when they ask you. Saying no is easy. And the more you do it the easier it gets. And when it comes to eventually going out (maybe with your ex) you will find you can’t manage it.

Drinking heavily.

This one shouldn’t need to be mentioned but we will anyway. It’s not the long term problems that will harm you here but the short term stuff. These can be pestering her while drunk, or drunk dialling and texting. You’ll kill your chances acting like this.

Laying your problems on anyone who’ll listen.

Unless people are really close to you like family, I find they generally don’t give a stuff about you or your problems. I know that sounds a bit harsh but it’s true. If they’ve had to endure your story the first time then next time they will run a mile. Laying your problems out to any and everyone who’ll listen is a sure fire way to lose friends quickly.

Making decision, important ones!

This is for your own safety. You aren’t in the right frame of mind to be making life changing decisions. You may believe that you are able to make a rational decision, there’s a pretty good chance you aren’t. Deciding to move home or change jobs will probably come back to bite you later on. And chances are it will be a big regret in your life.

Missing work.

Obviously this one is a big no no. At this critical time in your life you need to have a routine, let alone the money to live on. Time of work (when everyone knows the real reason) could jeopardise your job. No job means no chance of getting back together.

I’ve shown you a few of the danger signs to watch out for. You are in a horrible period in your life right now and it will be hard to get through it. However, there are some great techniques that can speed you through this period. Use them to get your emotions in check and then put forward a plan to “get my wife back”.

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A lot of people when they breakup just accept it and try to move on. Why should you do that? If there was genuine love in the relationship there must be something worth salvaging. It’s your choice, and yours alone to try and get your ex back. Here are a handful of tips to help decide.

1 – Is it really over?

It might be over for the time being but there’s no reason not to have another try at it. Especially if it was good before. Often times people accept things when they needn’t. To try to get your ex back is something you have every right to do. If you loved each other once you can love each other again.

2 – What’s the next step?

It’s a good time to take some time away from things and get your head into shape. You may ruin every chance you have if you attempt to win your ex back while in an emotionally unstable state. Your ex will realise that you are mature enough to handle the break up. They will probably expect some pestering and begging but you not doing so puts you in a better position when you do start your plan to win them back.

3 – I don’t have a plan of action!

You probably don’t have a plan right now and there are two roads you can travel here. Make your own plan up, or use a plan that has been used successfully in the past. So you’re now thinking where on earth do I find a successful plan? There are volumes written on the internet by people who have done it and are willing to share their knowledge.

4 – Where can I get that plan?

All the information you need is available for free, somewhere on the internet. You can choose to search and collect and decide what’s useful and what’s not. Imagine how long that will take you? However, you could take the easy path and arm yourself with a proven step by step system that will guide you every step of the way.

I know which one I would be going for as more than likely time is of the essence here. Right now your ex could be deciding that they need to move on to a new phase in their lives. This is where you must get back in the picture and make yourself the next phase in their lives. If your desire is to get your ex back then you have to move before they find their next partner.

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… Getting back together should be your choice, not left to chance.